This funk mood I am in now and again really need to stop pronto. Sometimes my lover was doing something that seemed to me unloving and not that anything he did was bad I had withdrawn. In my head it’s the need to leave.

All abandoned children please listen to me. This is a disease you must over come other wise you can ruin potentially great relationship. A broken woman is always on the go some how. She could not deal with charged emotional drama. When the feelings hit to the top she has to run and away fast. She will find all excuses to do it. Most of the time those excuses aren’t true. And she can break her life doing that. No man and no matter how much he loves her can endure that for every long.

A broken woman has no idea of the consequences of her action. She only knew that she had to run away. Things are always too much for her when she experienced ‘unloving’ feelings arose from something very innocently that her lover did. The explanation here is unloving to her means the end of the relationship, and it can go as far as she is going to be abandon soon. So she has to leave first and avoid that painful episode she endured when she was in her childhood.

I must say the feeling of being abandoned must be very terrible feeling to a young child whom she felt she has to do whatever she has to do NOT to have that again.

Being abandoned is a very terrifying feeling, especially if you are very young. For a broken woman, she is forever in that fearful mode, unless she stands up for her own sanity and says “NO” to it.

You must pray and pray a lot for that strength to stand up and stay put and sit still through this uncomfortable feeling.

This is SIMPLY not true.

Now here is a very important distinction. View your situation with an independent pair of eyes. Was your lover abusing you? Was he truly not cared of your feelings? Was he really abandoned you?

Unless you know for sure — your feelings just aren’t real. I really hate to tell you not to trust your feelings but in this case it’s your fear instead.

So when you are so ready to dump everything for a moment of peace, or so it seems to you, take a deep breath and reconsider your actions. Running away isn’t the way to solve them. Stay put. Your happiness is depended on you to stay put and learn how to change your feeling to accept reality and not what happened to you in your childhood.

Namaste.

Kim